A single, liberal woman on TikTok went viral when she posted about how she finds that men willing to play the traditionally masculine role in the relationship all seem to be conservative—and she doesn’t want a conservative.

Pity her.

“As a liberal woman, it is really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship in today’s day and age who is not a conservative,” said the TikToker with the username @Ms_Petch.

Newsflash, Ms. Petch: Conservative men don’t “play” the traditional masculine role; they embody it because they were born men and had smart fathers and mothers who raised them. Her use of a term that points to the theatrical speaks volumes about her. What would she like to see in a potential partner?

A man who wants to pay on the first date; who wants to open your door; who has that want and desire to take care of you and provide — who is not a conservative.

A guy who wants to go Dutch on the first date is a piss poor person in my book. My dating life was pretty non-existent in my younger years, but I had male friends who refused to let me pay for food when I was out with them. They also opened doors. Guess what? They were conservatives and had been raised by their parents to honor women in that way. The few liberal males that I could tolerate being around? Well, that was another story.

So, Ms. Petch, good luck with that. Your liberal feminist males are either serial abusers (see: Whedon, Joss; Weinstein, Harvey) or they’re effete wimps (see Windsor/Sussex, Harry; Styles, Harry)—what’s the deal with guys named Harry? Never go full Harry!

The Los Angeles woman said that men she’s dated who do have those quality traits don’t align with her political ideologies. And she clarified that just because she wants an old-fashioned gentleman, doesn’t mean she plans to subscribe to a traditional housewife role.

Ding! Ding! She’s from Los Angeles, home to some of the most ridiculous liberal women on the planet. If you have ever seen the movie Swingers, that scene at a Hollywood Hills party accurately portrays the viewpoint of many of the women in L.A. —always looking for status and what you can give to them, never what they can bring to the table.

Ms. Petch:

And obviously as a liberal woman I do want to be respected for my independence. And I do want to have my own autonomy in the relationship and not be combined or confirmed to the traditional female homemaker, childbearing, role.

Ms. Petch doesn’t want to subscribe to “the traditional housewife” role. Who is asking her to? This reflects that she has never actually had a conversation with a conservative, let alone a conservative man; she is basing her assumptions on trad wife TikTok videos and other nonsense that liberals assume about conservatives without any actual experience or facts in evidence. A conservative man who holds traditional values will honor independence, not try to restrict it.

I don’t want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man. But, am I asking to have my cake and eat it too?

“But, am I asking to have my cake and eat it too?” Ms. Petch knows the answer to that one even before she asks it. Yeah, hon. A real relationship with a true partner doesn’t work that way. Relationships are about compromise and finding a middle ground that will bring you both joy along with causing you to grow together. Ms. Petch has already made it known she’s not willing to be a partner. Seems like with her, it’s my way or the highway.

Bye, Felicia.

Here’s the link to her TikTok video, if you can stomach it. The comments alone are epic and confirm much of what I am saying here.

@ms_petch Dating realizations 2023 #dating #love #partner #women #men #couples #lovers #marriage #liberal #republican #conservative ♬ original sound – Petch🖤

Soon after her first viral video, Ms. Petch posted a second video saying that she went on a date with someone she claims is “progressive” with traditional values <insert *eyeroll* emoji>.

@ms_petch Literally went on a date with a progressive yet still very traditional man last night lmao who wouldve guessed he wouldve shown up right after THOUSANDS of you said its not out there hahahah #dating #love #traditional #bumble #tinder #marriage #family #men #women #dates #conservative #liberal #libertarian ♬ original sound – Petch🖤

First red flag: Ms. Petch said this mystery progressive/traditional guy is: “Pro-life” but “pro-trans”? Yeah, pull the other one.

This is the fantasyland that liberal women love to traffic in. Third-wave feminism has done them dirty, and they refuse to admit it, so they come up with these impossible standards that no self-respecting man—conservative, liberal, or otherwise—could or would ever live up to. No, Ms. Petch, you cannot have it all. You can prioritize and choose what’s most important to you in a relationship and how you can be the kind of person who attracts that. Then, you get over the rest. I would never even consider compromising my morals and values for any man—but the fact that Ms. Petch even considers it tells you how much she holds to her own morals and values. I mean, if she truly believed all the social justice claptrap she is spouting, then she wouldn’t also be crying about why all the cowboys are conservative. Her belief system eschews gender roles, encourages drugged, soy-boy men, and thinks a man can be a woman. Then when these “men” turn out to be exactly as weak-kneed—or abusive—as we know they can be, she’ll wonder what went wrong. This girl is all kinds of confused but pretends she has it all on lock. I predict the bubble of her fantasy with this current progressive/trad guy will burst sooner rather than later. Should make for another entertaining TikTok video, if nothing else.