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Actually, It Is My Business Which Restroom You Use

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The hubris of the transgender community is honestly mind-blowing when you stop to think about it. The entitlement they display about how they should be viewed and treated by society is stunning, and not in a "stunning and brave" sense. It's more of a "who do you think you are" kind of feeling. 

So high on their own supply are transgender activists and community members that they believe they have a right to spaces that don't belong to them, and this is especially true of women's spaces. Unsurprisingly, there aren't a lot of women attempting to break into men's places, and for good reason; there's not a lot to gain from it. 

Women aren't going to find themselves attempting to break into men's sports because they're far more likely to lose. Moreover, they aren't going to break into men's only spaces like locker rooms or restrooms, because the danger there is far greater. Typically, they demand gender-neutral bathrooms. Men who identify as women, however, always seem to want to force their way into women's restrooms. 

I wonder why. 

Regardless, the trans community is behind the idea that they should be welcome in any space they want and that I shouldn't have a say. As one video making the rounds around the internet claims, where trans people do their business is none of our business. 

In this video, you see a line of transgender, or trans-allies, proclaiming that where they use the restroom isn't anyone's business but theirs. The video features a buffet of radicals, the mentally ill, and what I can assume is a satanic clown. It ends with a transgender person going on a rant as the rest of them cheer. 

Except... it is my business. In fact, it's a lot of people's business. 

For starters, it's a massive concern for women whose restrooms and locker rooms are the ones primarily being invaded. While many people who identify as "transgender" may not have a violent bone in their body, the women in those private and vulnerable spaces don't know that, and shouldn't be asked to take that risk. 

Men are generally stronger, faster, and my physically imposing than women, and claiming to be a woman doesn't change the natural biological features of the human male. It's unfair to expect and pressure women to just accept the word of a man who is lying to himself about his own gender that he's "safe," as he's trying to worm his way into a space where they could easily be abused in some way. 

It's not largely accepted by modern society to say this, but if a man claiming to be a woman entered a restroom with a woman, that woman is at his mercy. She's safe because he allows her to be. If his mental illness dictated, or his perversions got the best of him, his chances of overpowering that woman and ruining her life are statistically high. Again, women should not be expected to take that chance. It's unfair. 

And I'm not going to hear out any arguments that instances of transgender people harming women in women's spaces are "rare." It happens enough for it to be a concern, and as the mind virus continues to spread, the chances of it happening get higher. Moreover, we already have the info that shows violence tends to be a feature within the transgender community, and if the transgender community thinks we're going to sit by and let women be exposed to that level of danger, they've got another thing coming. 

(READ: Transgender People Are Not Under Threat and Their Movement Is the Height of Narcissism)

But then, there's the more controversial take that men should have a say, and yeah... we do. 

Firstly, the people trying to break into these women's spaces are men, and proclaiming you're a woman doesn't take you out of the male camp. You're still subjected to male expectations by other men, and this definitely applies if the man has a female charge. 

Back in April 2023, a man took to social media to threaten other men that if they tried to stop him from going into a woman's restroom, he'd kill them, saying it's the "last mistake you ever make." 

My response to him is the same response to these yahoos in the video above: 

The bottom line is this: In the event that my wife, mother, sister, niece, or any female friend or acquaintance makes her way into the women’s restroom and I see you follow her in after, it’s my duty as a man to either stop you or, if for some reason I end up failing that, I will follow you into that room myself.

You can be incredibly furious about it all you want, and other women in that restroom can get mad. The owners of the establishment can even attempt to force me out. It won’t matter. I won’t budge. Until I can confirm that my charge is safe, you will be under my direct supervision. I will stand in front of your stall and wait for you to flush, tuck it back in, and leave. When you exit the room, I will leave the room. If the woman or girl I’m looking after leaves the room, I will leave the room.

But she will not be in that room alone with you, a male, if you make it in there at all. You can identify as whatever you want; it doesn’t change biology. Neither of us belongs in that room. I’d rather not be in there, but you can’t expect a man to just sit back and let another man follow a woman or child he cares about into a private, vulnerable place where it’s easy to be cornered. You force any man’s hand with that action.

(READ: A Warning to the Transgender Person Threatening Violence if He's Stopped From Entering Women's Restrooms)

Bathrooms should be safe spaces, but increasingly aren't. It's sad that in many circumstances, a man has to check a woman's space to make sure it's safe before they can even enter. 

For instance: 

It's every bit a man's business if a man walks into a room where the woman he loves or is charged with protecting to the mercy of men who clearly don't have their best intentions in mind, or men who have mental illnesses alone with them. 

These lunatics can make these cute little declarative videos all they want... it's still my business. 

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