Canadian Parents Fooled Into Raising Prostitutes


We are failing our children as a society. It's just that simple.

Canada, oh Canada. What the heck happened to ya? I suppose it is nothing more mundane than that our northern neighbor has succumbed to the same sort of nihilism that western culture in general is slouching toward. Two recent stories in the Canadian press could not illustrate better the depths being plumbed by Canadian society–and by extension our own.

The first purports to be parenting advice perpetrated on Canada by one Adriana Barton of the Globe and Mail. In this woeful homage to the newest sort of Dr. Spokian abdication of parenting, Barton tells Canadian parents that “consensual living” is a far better way to rear a child than exerting parental authority.

After reading Barton’s piece, though, one gets the distinct feeling that this “new” idea of “consensual living” allows willful children to control the parent. It is “non-hierarchical”–meaning the parents have no authority, apparently–and is supposedly based upon “understanding each other’s feelings,” trumpets Barton.

Does your child want to wear a Halloween cat costume day and night? So be it, let the young’un have her fun. Is your child throwing a temper tantrum about having to go to an appointment with a parent? Heck, let the child have his way and cancel that darned ol’ appointment. Don’t be cross with little Jimmie. He’s a fine boy no matter what. Why, he needs that ever more enshrined self-esteem to be built up, don’tcha know? The concept seems to push the idea that parents should bend over backward for the child and work their entire lives around the child’s druthers. Indulgent. Hypersensitive. Cloying. Just the sort of stuff made for that parent too busy to actually get involved with their child’s life, but want to feel like they are real parents anyway.

Sadly, this claptrap was spawned in 2006 by a group of families in North Carolina. Barton assures us that the idea has been “gaining ground in alternative parenting communities and online.” Yeah, I found out Elvis is still alive online, too.

Now juxtapose that story with one that appeared in the The Edmonton Sun penned by Andrew Hanon. To any sensible parent the headline to this story seems to be the ultimate, logical outcome of the “consensual living” style of parenting: Teen girls trading sex for favours.

Nice, huh?

In Hanon’s story we find Canadian girls as young as 12 willingly prostituting themselves to men in their 40s for nothing else so prosaic as $40 to go shopping with. The story details the appalling trend of middle-class girls trading sex for money, drugs, and luxury goods.

And worse, there doesn’t seem to be any sense among these young children prostituting their bodies that they’ve done anything wrong.

Police were horrified to realize many of the girls were angry with them for shutting off the cash flow.

One girl told Azam, “We told the police that they never forced us to have sex. They didn’t need to because they could always find other girls to do it…”

So, these many young girls are getting their fancy handbags, electronics or suddenly coming home with wads of cash and what are the parents doing? Do these purported adults have even the first bit of curiosity about where their little girls are getting all these products? Do they have any questions at all about where the money is coming from?

Now, officials have noted the climbing rates of sexually transmitted diseases in the USA for several years. Recently, reports about the highest rates of chlamydia ever recorded made the news detailing the fact that women are finding a three times higher rate of contracting the disease than men. These diseases can have far reaching effects for girls. Without treatment girls can find themselves becoming sterile. Chlamydia can be cured with antibiotics, though, but medical treatment must be administered quickly.

In any case, I’d hazard that many of these parents are about to “consensual living” their kids into a disease ridden, morally corrupt way of life that will destroy the coming generations of humanity, lay low our societies, and turn “living” into a hell that could so easily be avoided by a sensible return to tradition, religious tenet and cultural norms.

Oh Canada, Oh boy.


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The more child rearing is abdicated to the state...

momac Friday, April 3rd at 6:45AM EST (link)

The more people should expect to dislike the results. Totally the parents’ faults on both fronts. Turning over their kids to state-run institutions, and not parenting them in the time they do have them. We should be well on our way with universal pre-care to university.

I personally further think it’s a waste of everyone’s time and money even policing this kind of garbage. I simply don’t care to send bad-parenting reminders via police after the damage is looong since done. There will always be prostitutes, and there will always be recreational drugs. I’ll keep my money, since we’ve proved beyond a shadow of a doubt to have any affect on them other than creating immense police organizations and huge prison populations. And not a single person I’ve ever met would have any difficulty locating ANY drug without fear. Great value for dollar.

The only solution is deep, deep rollbacks in the size and reach of state and police so that people start working towards some semblance of self-reliance and responsibility again. Behavior, consequences, real life– but fat chance of that. Liberals love the state and we love to believe that more laws = moral society.

 

Not just in Canada

marshmom (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 7:38AM EST (link)

It’s happening here too, slowly but surely. It’s terrifying that they don’t see anything wrong with it and that culture is slowly gravitating toward that behavior, not away from it.
It makes me want to lock my kids in a closet until they turn 25.

 

Parents are supposed to be the adult

red4ever (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 8:31AM EST (link)

It means saying “no” occassionally. It means not being your child’s friend. If you need to be your child’s friend, you need to look at your own life. Seriously. Someone over the age of 20 should not be so desperate for friends that a teenager seems a good idea.

Here is the funny thing. In Maryland ( a very blue state), they asked the teenagers what they wanted. They wanted parents, not friends. They wanted rules and boundaries. Sure, they would have tested them. That is a teenagers’ job. But, they appreciate the safety net of the rules.

The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who, in times of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.
Dante

 

whatever happened

omar Friday, April 3rd at 8:54AM EST (link)

to a good whoopen? Seriously, children have been bent over knees for the past 10,000 years and civilization has done pretty good by it. I really do not understand all this garbage about being your kid’s friend. I’m not a parent so I honestly can’t say much beyond how I was raised and when I see kids act out these days I can’t imagine what my parents would have done to me if I tried to pull some of that crap.

And no, I’m not being sarcastic or trolling. I’m dead serious.

That whuppin' will have the lesbian social workers at your house

Achance (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 9:27AM EST (link)

so fast it will make your head swim! All the little brat has to do is tell teacher that some mean old adult touched them, that’s enough, and you’ll be lucky not to be perp walked out of your job or home.

One of the great joys of my life is the fact that there are no more minor children under my roof. You literally take your life into your hands trying to responsibly raise kids these days.

In Vino Veritas

I whip mine.

itrytobenice (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 12:55PM EST (link)

And if they complain to the teacher, I’ll send them to the Superintendent and he’ll whip them so hard it will make mine seem like a caress.

And some day, my kids will thank me for it. Not yet, but someday.

Proper grammar saves lives.

Let’s eat Grandma.
Let’s eat, Grandma.


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irresponsibility

furrier (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 9:02AM EST (link)

Some of the phrases that come to mind:
1-abdication of parental responsibility
2-child neglect

 

Social Conservatives

Warrior (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 9:22AM EST (link)

Every election cycle, some buch of dunderheads in print or electronic punditry want to argue about cutting loose social conservatives so we can win elections.

After reading these stories, what good will it be to own the White House, Congress, etc., if our children are diesase-ridden prostitutes? The same goes for almost any other aspect of politics. Why value anything but money, unless one has a religious or spiritual awareness. Why not let junior do what he likes, except for the monster he grows up to be? Why instill any morality in anyone? Or expect it?

One huge reason is that without religion, gubmint becomes the arbiter of values. there really is no such thing as “value free education.” Someone’s values will be imparted. Should it be those of a benevolent and omniscient Creator? Or should it be the God devised by Queen Nancy and Prince Harry?

BTW. One doesn’t have to look as far as Canada for examples of the logical outcomes of such thinking. Just take a peek at what little or no parenting, encouraged by misguided welfare policy, has done to inner city blacks. Young adolescents are initiated into the values of wild adolescent males. With obvious results. Killings, shootings, knifings, and bitches and ho’s. Life is brutish, miserable and short.

Yes, we have a lot to look forward to in the bright future of “consensual living” type parenting. It is really is nothing more than the much discounted Rouseauian ideal of “the noble savage.” And remember, Rousseau put all six of his kids in an orphanage. Typical liberalism — do as I say, not as I do…

“Racial criteria are irrational, irrelevant, [and] odious to our way of life.” — Thurgood Marshall for the NAACP Legal Defense Fund in the 1950 Supreme Court case of McLaurin v. Oklahoma

mmmm

omar Friday, April 3rd at 9:40AM EST (link)

I don’t think it requires religion to raise good children. There should be other reasons to be a moral person other than god said so.

How else do you impart a value system, then?

jimmuy8 (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 10:04AM EST (link)

If you teach morals without a system behind it the morals you’ve taught are no better than the gods of Gilgamesh (who’s power held sway only as long as you remained in their city; outside there were no rules). That was the great leap, the first step toward redemption of man that the Jews introduced: A god who held sway over your heart no matter where you were.

If you want to teach morals without a religion, I’m sure it’s possible. The whole notion of Aristotle that “education = good” and, therefore, those who do not good are only lacking education.

How do you teach a child not to steal?

Work through that without any mention of a higher power than man. And answer: “If I can avoid getting caught by my fellow man, I can steal freely.”

By asking the child to consider what it would be like

Achance (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 10:25AM EST (link)

to be stolen from. Though that is a Christian notion, “Do unto others …” it is a pretty universal concept. The problem in human society is that this “moral” breaks down when the one(s) to which something is done become non-persons. It is not OK to steal from other people, but it is OK to steal from those who are not “people.” This is the way the Muslims justify doing almost anything to anyone who isn’t a Muslim. It is also the way the Germans justified their attempted extermination of the Jews and others; as a matter of law, they simply removed their humanity. This is why democracies can be so dangerous. Germany was far and away the most democratic major power in WWII and most of their atrocities were as the result of democratic legislative enactments approved by the courts. If you read court decisions from the Nazi period, the most common phrase you’ll find is “the healty opinion of the volk.”

In Vino Veritas

U made my point

Warrior (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 8:06PM EST (link)

Nazi Germany is an excellent example of state values inculcated in the young by force — the Hitler Jugen. Remember, not only did Hitler kill 6 million Jews, he also exterminated 3 million Christians, conservatives, intellectuals, gypsies and homosexuals. Hitler hated religion, red meat and private gun ownership almost as much as the modern day American liberal.

And BTW, I agree that pure democracies are basically mobs — that is why our founding fathers did not create one here. We live under a constitutional republic, or did so before the Obamanation came to town.

Sorry for the late post. I have to work ten or twelve hours a day to pay for the welfare state, the defense of Germany, France, Japan, Korea, etc., the weekly cross country junkets of Queen Nancy, the 500 person entourage B. Heussein has hauled across the Atlantic ocean for his dominion and pleasure, the mortgages of people who never should have had a loans in the first place, the drug use, cigarettes, cell phones and beer for an army of public housing dwellers, the Fannie Mae pay-offs to Chris Dodd, Barney Frank and BHO, the policing, medical care and education of an invading army of illegals, etc, etc, ad infinitum…

“Racial criteria are irrational, irrelevant, [and] odious to our way of life.” — Thurgood Marshall for the NAACP Legal Defense Fund in the 1950 Supreme Court case of McLaurin v. Oklahoma

 
 
 

Is that an argument or just a pointy stick? (nt)

Neil Stevens (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 4:42PM EST (link)

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Warrior

mom2oneson (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 10:59AM EST (link)

I’ve thought about this too, and I wonder what happens with the adolescents. Black mothers are usually very strict, much stricter than most white mothers. I don’t think it’s welfare policy, but I don’t know what it is. I see WAY more let the kids raise themselves with more affluent people but the kid crimes are covered basically. Black woman are much much more confident as parents especially with young children.

Well...

navychick1993 Friday, April 3rd at 12:31PM EST (link)

Welfare policy does play into it somewhat in the black community. There is a break down in the family structure, with noincentive for the father to stick around and the women left to raise the kids. And you are right to say that kids are raising themselves, especially in the black community. More babies are having babies and the cycle just continues.

Another thing, I grew up in Yorba Linda, California (birth place of Richard Nixon…aka Land of Gracious Living) and it was really eye-opening for me. There were things that the white children would say and do at home that my brothers and I would never even attempt. Now, I don’t assume that all white parents are “liberal” in the way they raise their children. I just know that out here in California, the liberal agenda has influenced the way a lot of parents (of all races and socioeconomic backgrounds) raise their children.

By the way, when my two nephews come to visit, it is understood that “time out” is for football and basketball, not for discipline. (smile)

Ignorance comes in all shapes, sizes and colors.

Sorry...

navychick1993 Friday, April 3rd at 12:36PM EST (link)

Second part of second sentence should read “…with no incentive for the father to stick around and the women left to raise the kids.”

Ignorance comes in all shapes, sizes and colors.

 
 
 

whites vs blacks

mom2oneson (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 11:38AM EST (link)

I also think white families use drugs more to control their teen boys more. I don’t know of one white family in real life that doesn’t have a teenage boy on some kind of psychiatric medication to control him.

Not racial, just convenient

Warrior (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 4:32PM EST (link)

Sorry guys, I guess I should have elaborated a little more, It has nothing to do with anyone’s color. It has to do with the absence of a father in the house. Welfare policy has disincentivized fatherhood or even the presence of a nominal father figure in the home.

I simply used the black ghetto since 70% of black children are raised in fatherless homes and that percentage is much higher in inner city housing projects. However, the overall point was, “Look what happens to children with only half the parenting necessary, much less NONE.” It was simply convenient to use the inner city since it contained all the factors needed for this example.

“Racial criteria are irrational, irrelevant, [and] odious to our way of life.” — Thurgood Marshall for the NAACP Legal Defense Fund in the 1950 Supreme Court case of McLaurin v. Oklahoma

 
 
 

The Lost World

jimmuy8 (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 9:44AM EST (link)

Juveniles growing up without adults are unable to form stable, functional social units and are especially unable to rear young.

Parents who fail to teach their children how to be civil members of society do more than just harm their child, they inflict upon the rest of us a danger and rot who may never be reformed.

And work ethic is flat-lining.

 

There's a right way...

zeebeach Friday, April 3rd at 10:40AM EST (link)

I now have two children in university. They have both told me how grateful they are for my “standing firm” when necessary. Yes, children do want boudaries. They need to know that someone is looking out for them, however much they may fight the rules.

 

The mainstread does not approve

mom2oneson (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 10:50AM EST (link)

psrostitution here, but what is the difference between this and the “middle class” parents here that bring their girls to the gynecologist when they are teens and put them on birth control? Parenting advice by popular psychologists isn’t any different here, it’s nonsense too and most churches aren’t even speaking out against it.
The US is no different, here girls are encouraged to girls sleep with guys just as part of being a teen, instead of for electronics.

 

mainstream nt

mom2oneson (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 10:50AM EST (link)

Man, I dont equate New Orleans with America...

Alberta (Diary) Friday, April 3rd at 11:22AM EST (link)

By that I mean dont cherry pick your districts. Redmonton, as its known in the province, is a bastion of this deadly lib thought. Thats because its the capital and so its filled with career bureaucrats, career students, career politicians, and of course, home to the prov union.

Also, the Globe and Mail is the peoples daily, comrade.

With that said I will pivot to agree with you. Importance of Order, as Tommy Carlyle would say. We recently, in Canada, had some girl get her boyfriend to kill another girl in exchange for sex, and they were all like 15 years old. Id blame Trudeau, but its really the fault of the people who voted him in.

Be wary of this Obama cat. He smells a little like Trudeau.

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