Yesterday, I had a conversation with a friend of mine. Good person. Smart person. But also an Obamabot. Unfortunately, I think the conversation was a very typical one you’d hear between a conservative and a liberal. Rather than explain to you just how maddening the conversation was, I’ll do my best to recreate it. Here goes:
Me: Did you hear what’s happening in California?
Obamabot: No. What?
Me: The government is about to run out of money and the legislature is having a standoff. The Democrats want to raise taxes on businesses and individuals. The Republicans say no, it’s time to cut spending. Both sides aren’t budging. In fact, the Republicans just canned the one of their caucus leaders because he was about to give in and support raising taxes.
Obamabot: Well, they should raise taxes.
Me: You think? I mean, between the federal income tax, state taxes, and hundreds of other taxes, people are really hurting. Especially in this bad economy. Don’t you think people are taxed enough already?
Obamabot: Yeah, but we’ve got to pay for stuff.
Me: Right. But we should cut spending, not increase taxes. The government is incredibly wasteful. Surely there are ways they can cut spending. That’s what most families have to do when they have budget trouble. Why shouldn’t the government cut spending too?
Obamabot: You can’t cut spending.
Me: What? Sure you can. It’s easy, just cut spending 10% across the board. Instead of giving some program $30 million a year, they get $27 million. That’s still plenty of money. That program will have to sacrifice and make do, just like families are doing now. Think of all the billions and billions of dollars the government would save if they just did something like that.
Obamabot: What about education?
Me: Cut spending there too. The problem in most government programs isn’t spending, it’s incompetence and inefficiency. Look at that new school they built over on Park Lane. Beautiful new building, but the kids in there aren’t learning. The schools are failing despite all the money being thrown at them.
Obamabot: How do you know schools are failing?
Me: What? It’s been in the news for a few decades now. Test scores are plummeting, competency in reading and writing is abysmal. It’s in the news all the time. And it’s getting worse, not better. The problem isn’t money.
Obamabot: What do you care about education? Your kids are going to private school.
Me: I know. I have to send my kids to private school because the public schools stink. And I’m still paying outrageous taxes for the public schools.
Obamabot: Yeah, but what do you care about education?
Me: I care because that’s the future of our country. Younger generations aren’t learning squat. I want them to be educated. Don’t you?
Obamabot: That’s why we need higher taxes.
I just shook my head. I mean, how do you even have a conversation about this kind of stuff any more? And this was a regular, smart, relatively successful person. It makes me want to sell everything I own, move to the mountains, build a little shack by the river, and eat fresh rainbow trout the rest of my life.
God help us.
I mean really.
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mailloux (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 4:14PM EST (link)I’ve had many of those same conversations . . . they are frustrating and quite simply bizarre. I suspect my grade school age children can reason better than some of the die hard Obama supporters I’ve spoken with.
Take Care, mailloux
Same conversation
SgtKirk (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 4:17PM EST (link)I have an old Army buddy that is a Northeastern liberal and never left Hawaii after his 10 years serving our country. He and I have the same arguments every time we talk to each other. If I could reach through the phone and smack him I would. This last October, he actually said to me, and I quote, “What’s wrong with a little bit of socialism?”. I am still in shock 4 months later.
It's so, so frustrating.
thinklib (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 4:40PM EST (link)Just when you think you have them coming around to your way of thinking (logic and reason will do that), these otherwise intelligent people start spewing more nonsensical thinking. They switch gears, distract, or just put up the hand.
It really is a sickness.
I can’t take it any more.
That is exactly what they do nt
mom2oneson (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 8:55PM EST (link)nt
a liberal snob
John E. (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 5:38PM EST (link)“What do you care…?” Says quite a lot by implication. He doesn’t think you care. He thinks he does. He probably thinks there is no remedy for your moral ignorance, so he concludes it would be pointless to reason with you. Meanwhile, you respect his intelligence and so attempt to reason with him and are mystified how he can be so… you hate to say it but… dumb. The problem is that he is a Snob; a liberal Snob.Maybe you could ask him for his thoughts on this:
The Roots of Liberal Condescension
By William Voegeli
From the Claremont Review of Books: Snobbery is the last refuge of the liberal-arts major.
Snob? Only on the inside.
thinklib (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 5:54PM EST (link)Well, he’s not a snob as far as I can tell by the naked eye. He doesn’t walk around with his chin in the air at an 18-degree angle like a certain world leader we all know.
However, you’re right, the fact that he refused to see my side of things despite overwhelming logic and reason means that he’s an intellectual snob. His view: my side of the conversation just wasn’t worth considering.
Here's the real problem with liberals
Jack_Savage (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 7:33PM EST (link)They think that government is one big charitable organization and that taxes are indeed contributions (the reason George Stephanopolos used the term during Clinton I). They believe that government is a benevolent friend and that every service they provide is desperately needed by the huddled masses. They think that government allocates its resources for the ultimate good of the people, and we all ought to be on board.
When you say “Cut taxes” they think “withdraw contributions”. It’s like proposing everyone tithe 4.25% instead of 10% – simply unthinkable. They have a completely and fundamentally skewed view of the role of government, and you have to start from that very foundation if you are to make any progress with them.
When one realizes that they think that way – that nothing of any good or import can be done without the massive intervention of the government, you can see why they cannot understand why in the world you would want to make it smaller. It’s like making the Red Cross smaller, or United Way, or reducing church benevolences.
They firmly believe that the more money spent on something, the better it will get. If it still sucks, the funding was inadequate, not the premise. They have simply cut and pasted the “real” charitable organization model – and their biases in favor of it – onto government.
A long, long row to hoe to flip these people.
You are right
mom2oneson (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 8:49PM EST (link)Jack you are 100% right that is exactly what they believe and it shows they do not think and it shows they are not around the people they supposedly want to help. They really have no clue how the low income or poor live day to day. The person who points something out to them, is only pointing out part of the picture. If they see a so called hungry kid they don’t see the fact that the mom sold the familiy’s food stamps. They don’t see mom wasting her food stamps on expensive commerically processed food instead of staples. It’s like they don’t even see the poor as making decisions.
I don’t believe a minute of the “food on the table/starving children” arguments. I would believe it if they said “The children need more fresh vegetables and fruit. They are living on rice, beans and chicken.”
I don’t understand why republicans never argue this back to them. Even if we skipped trying to teach that about voluntary giving vs taxation we could make so many arguments based on reality and tear apart their made up victim situations.
I have seen these with republicans too. They have this presumption that poor/low income=stupid. They have this idea that the poor should not be expected to have common sense or that being poor mitigates irresponsibility.
actually I am one of those with a low opinion of "the poor"
kyle8 (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 2:37PM EST (link)But then again, I came form a poor family, and worked with poor people in a government program for years.
For the most part, people who remain in poverty (as opposed to those who work their way out of it) Are, I have found, indeed stupid, venal, substance abusers, petty criminals or just plain trash.
Sorry, that’s the truth.
“Nothing works like freedom, Nothing succeeds like liberty”
Kyle
yep you're right.
Maggie_in_Indiana (Diary) Sunday, February 22nd at 1:31PM EST (link)and they continue to use their “grew up poor” status as an excuse for how they live their lives,Without even a meger attempt at changing anything. For them it is easier to give up than to work their way out of poverty and addiction. Many blame their parents as the only examples they ever had. Others use “society” that looks down on lower class people.
We breed this mind set, generation after generation,time to cut the cord.
Maggie in Indiana
Well there is a strong corelation between
Achance (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 2:45PM EST (link)poor and stupid, or at least poor and ignorant. I grew up in the rural South in the ’50s. The ignorance was simply appalling. People lived awfully simply because that is the only way they knew how to live. Public education is supposed to turn some lights on about better ways to live, but unfortunately it has come to reinforce the worst rather than bring out the best.
In Vino Veritas
Jack Savage, that is the best description of the twisted thinking of liberals ever [nt]
ZootSuit (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 2:06PM EST (link)***** Unrepentant African-American nationalist, Unapologetic African-American conservative!
It makes me want to sell everything I own, move to the mountains, build a little shack by the river, and eat fresh rainbow trout the rest of my life.
Kenny Solomon (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 8:07PM EST (link)ThinkLib, you’re nowhere near being alone in your thoughts.
Don’t even try with Obamabots. Not worth your time, nor anyone’s.
Folks, for me, it’s time to kick back and watch the ‘Bots get deeper and deeper into a hole they’ll never climb from. These folks all need interventions of a Constitutional nature.
In a store just a few hours ago, I actually laughed at a ‘Bot – right in his face….. and it felt good. What got me rolling was this guy actually said he was in awe that Obama beat GWB in the election in November.
I actually stood stunned for a few seconds trying to compute the abject ignorance of this guy, then I really cracked up laughing.
I said that ‘I felt sorry for him in advance’. He didn’t get the meaning. I had to leave the store or I may have tried to enter into a deep discussion with a mental Tribble.
PS… What got the conversation started in the first place? I forgot that I was wearing “the shirt”……….. I had a custom t-shirt made….. “Don’t blame me, I voted for Sarah Palin.”
I don’t think the guy liked me.
Aw, come on.
Steph C (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 9:02PM EST (link)You can build better than a shack, can’t you?
“[I]f the public are bound to yield obedience to laws to which they cannot give their approbation, they are slaves to those who make such laws and enforce them.” –Candidus in the Boston Gazette, 1772
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Good point.
thinklib (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:37PM EST (link)Yes, but if I build anything larger than a shack, they will find me and tax me for it. Then they’ll tax my trout. And on and on and on.
Ugh.
Well, that's true.
Steph C (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:47PM EST (link)We could always go back to cave living, but…
“[I]f the public are bound to yield obedience to laws to which they cannot give their approbation, they are slaves to those who make such laws and enforce them.” –Candidus in the Boston Gazette, 1772
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Let me see if I understand this
jo_davi (Diary) Saturday, February 21st at 12:46PM EST (link)This conversation started over your “I voted for Palin” tshirt. I VOTED for Palin tshirt- and they still thought the election was between Obama and GW?
I bet his guy failed many open book tests.
And anyone wonders why liberal talk radio is such a dismal failure?
Praying (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 9:03PM EST (link)These guys have developed the fine art of circular reasoning – and their little lib minds just go round and round and round – saying the same trite things (anyone else sick of “hope and change”?) They have lost the power of reason – the “intellectual elite” that has to push everyone down in order to remain superior. I am constantly reminded of the story of the Emperor’s New Clothes. But I think that maybe people are starting to notice that the Obamessiah is not wearing any clothes.
No!!!11!1!!1!1! The Bilderbergers are coming
Libtalk is a failure because
roscopico (Diary) Monday, February 23rd at 9:14PM EST (link)most libs are generally disinterested in politics. They come to the table once every four years and vote for the biggest handout, then go back to FM stations.
Is there any doubt NPR would fail as well were it not for subsidization?
Im Himmel gibt’s kein Bier…
Thinklib...
Steph C (Diary) Thursday, February 19th at 9:09PM EST (link)What Kenny said. You can’t talk to them. At some point reality will hit them but until then, it’s like only the most superficial neurons are firing in their brains.
I don’t even try to talk sense to them. I just agree with them and then extrapolate to the logical next steps, then the next, until they say now wait a minute… that’s not what the intent is… at which point I say “words and actions” and then the conversation stops but the steam coming out their ears lets me know I reached at least a few of those deeper neurons.
“[I]f the public are bound to yield obedience to laws to which they cannot give their approbation, they are slaves to those who make such laws and enforce them.” –Candidus in the Boston Gazette, 1772
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No, I don't think it will
wennejunk (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 12:45PM EST (link)At some point reality will hit them
I’m not sure you can count on that. I have a strong suspicion that even with their (and our) world crumbling about them, they will cling to their beliefs.
This is what makes this such a dangerous and essential fight.
s much as we would like to sit back and let them burn their hands on the stove, it is probable they will not only not learn from the experience but also draw incorrect conclusions (like “we should outlaw stoves”) and continue down the unicorn road leaving a path of destruction behind them as they go.
The mountain shack sounds appealing, until you realize they may not be much left to come back to once they grind to the inevitable halt.
There are only two kinds of people in the end: those who say to God, ‘Thy will be done,’ and those to whom God says, in the end, ‘Thy will be done.’ -C. S. Lewis
First,
Steph C (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:07PM EST (link)I don’t plan to sit back and let them burn their hands on the stove. I’m not sitting back but I can see there is no stopping them. Some have to be burned before they learn they can’t do that.
Second, there will be some who will go to their deaths believing in their unicorn road but not every lib will. Remember, some of our staunchest conservatives right here on RedState were, at one time, some of the staunchest liberals.
The utopian dreams can override reality only so long because they never ever take into account our human nature that God wrote into our DNA. Have faith in God’s design of us. History bears this out as surely as anything else we can point to. The liberals/socialists/communists can rewrite history all they want but the can’t (at least not yet) rewrite our genes.
“[I]f the public are bound to yield obedience to laws to which they cannot give their approbation, they are slaves to those who make such laws and enforce them.” –Candidus in the Boston Gazette, 1772
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They are not equipped for rational discourse with Conservatives
1SGinTN (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:57AM EST (link)At least that has been my experience. On numerous occasions, they have gooten angry, ended the conversation or changed the subject abruptly, even petulantly ran away. Mind you, I have been on my best behavior on these occasions, in an attempt to win them over by reason (as opposed to telling them they were full of crap).
I think part of our failure to communicate is akin to the old Mars/Venus thing. They base a lot of their positions on emotions and idealism, whereas we Conservatives base our positions on reason and empirical evidence. Because of what our positions are based on, we don’t have a problem with exposing our positions to challenge and debate. Liberals, on the other hand, must by necessity guard their positions from the challenges of reason & evidence – for their emotional & idealistice positions are unable to weather the assault of reality.
Tu Ne Cede Malis
-Virgil
Libs: Higher taxes for thee, but not for me.
scottbomb (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 9:03AM EST (link)If higher taxes are truely all that’s needed to save the world, then why not make a donation? There are plenty of millionaire liberals in California, surely there are some that can made do with a smaller mansion for the common good.
www.HowObamaGotElected.com
“The American people will never knowingly adopt socialism. But, under the name of ‘liberalism’, they will adopt every fragment of the socialist program, until one day America will be a socialist nation, without knowing how it happened.” – Norman Thomas, U.S. Socialist Party presidential candidate 1940, 1944 and 1948
Logic and Reason are Languages They Don't Understand.
farstar99 (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:16PM EST (link)They are emotion-driven, which is why they’re easily led, like sheep. They don’t think unless they’re forced to, and even then, one word from their cult leader, or leaders, of the moment is enough to make them stop and toe the line.
I gave up trying to talk to them long ago. The two schools are not compatible and cannot co-exist. As slowly as people on our side of the aisle are waking up to the danger of Obama, it make take a decade for them to accept that. It will come to civil war. When side if fascist and seeks the elimination of the other, the other side must resist to survive, or leave. I have no intention of leaving.
Meanwhile, those who sounded the warning back in Spring 2008 share much with those who warned about Hitler. They weren’t heard, and when they kept speaking, they were silenced. Keep talking, but don’t waste your breath on them.
farstar how do people get like that
mom2oneson (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:22PM EST (link)What takes away their ability to think? Is it being in public schools and being exposed to all the garbage about making decisions based on how they feel?
I can't get a satisfactory reconciliation
Uma Richie (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:19PM EST (link)from those who tout Darwin yet insist on the fittest bailing everyone else out.
They don't define fit the same way you do.
Achance (Diary) Friday, February 20th at 1:49PM EST (link)For them, being “fit” has nothing to do with what you do or what you accomplish but rather what you feel and what beliefs you espouse.
In Vino Veritas
Emotion-
jo_davi (Diary) Saturday, February 21st at 12:48PM EST (link)It’s all based on emotion