Not too long ago, President Obama gave a speech at Notre Dame where he declared that we must be “open to compromise” regarding the abortion “debate.” At the time I thought to myself that this is one debate that should actually be over because I believe that almost everyone is truly pro-life; they’ve simply convinced themselves that an unborn baby is not a life. They are being intellectually dishonest in order to rationalize their own behavior, in order to avoid tough questions — and their answers.
Then the Cap and Trade bills came up and, of course, Obamacare, and I let those distract me. I know how the left simply likes to use abortion as a wedge issue at every turn so I thought it best to focus on the pressing pending legislation. Well, the left has brought abortion back into “the debate.” In fact, they’ve brought abortion in as a cornerstone argument in regards to Obamacare. Senator Barbara Boxer, Ma’am, proudly declared on the Senate floor that she believes that if health care covers Viagra, then it should cover abortion. Yes, because a treatment for a dysfunctional male naughty bit is exactly the same as a surgical procedure that many consider immoral and that takes a life. Speaking of immoral, Senator Dianne Feinstein went one step further and stated that it is “morally correct” for taxpayers to fund abortion.
This was capped off today by the launch of the Rosa Acuna Project, which aims to expose the dishonesty (intellectual and otherwise) of Planned Parenthood. The first video shows a counselor, with corroboration by a Doctor, telling a woman that the baby growing inside her womb isn’t really a baby:
“That is not a baby.” Dr. Polhaska, the abortion doctor, insists, “It’s not a baby at this stage or anything like that.” Polhaska also states that having an abortion will be “much safer than having a baby,” warning, “You know, women die having babies.” …
They are wrong, and worse, they know it. They are perpetuating lies, and manipulating people, all to further an agenda and to gain and keep power. It is far past due to finally be honest about it, but I’m still going to try.
Some say it sounds like a train, some say it sounds like a galloping horse. Others say it is nothing; just a clump of cells, a mass of tissue. Some even call it a “punishment.” But it’s not. It is the sound of an unborn baby’s heartbeat, 8 to 12 weeks gestation. Hearing that sound, the sound of my daughter’s heartbeat in the womb, and seeing the picture above, which was my first ultrasound at 6.5 weeks pregnant, is what made me begin a far too slow realization that I am, in fact, what is commonly known as Pro-Life. It was a bracing epiphany after years of espousing the “choice” mantra. Still, for some time afterward, I clung to the belief, albeit diminishing, that just because I was Pro-Life it didn’t mean that I could force my views on others. What can I say? It was the libertarian in me. Recently, I finally realized how oh-so-wrong that was.
That bright spot in the middle of the tiny bean-sized Gracie? That’s her heart. Beating. You can see clearer pictures by googling images, but I wanted to show an un-enhanced personal photo of a baby some of you may know by name. (I did crop it, though. Y’all can see my fancy womb, but seeing my bladder is just icky.)
Surgical abortions aren’t performed until after that 6th week mark. This is after the heart is already functioning and vital organs, such as the brain and digestive organs, are formed or forming. OBGYNs won’t even schedule a maternity appointment to confirm pregnancy until after that 6th week mark, so a surgical abortion is not even possible until then.
Still, I continued to delude myself that I was more in the “pro-choice” camp. I don’t much care for limitations on freedom or individuality and I have a rather strong libertarian bent (without the cuckoo pants parts.) I believe that humans are flawed, so, who am I (or the Government for that matter) to pretend to be otherwise and think that I know best? Part of being free, to me, is being allowed to fail, being allowed to be wrong, even being allowed to be an utter Asshat.
I believe that we aren’t fully evolved or “enlightened,” whether you lean more secular or spiritual. That old line, “You can’t legislate morality?” I believe that it should have been amended to include “you can’t legislate evolution of a human thought process level.”
So, I continued to justify my increasingly floundering position for the above reasons. But eventually I found that I could no longer do so. One of the reasons? Trig Palin.
Gracie, 16 week ultrasound
The fact that 95% of the “Trigs” of this world are killed before they are born sickens me. If that isn’t Eugenics (Thanks Margaret Sanger! Sigh) then I don’t know what is. Those babies are killed AFTER 16 weeks, which is the earliest an amniocentesis can be done. The picture above shows Gracie at 16 weeks. I labeled the head, the foot and the arm for any men reading this – I know y’all aren’t too good at “seeing” the ultrasounds, and they can be difficult to decipher. The fact that my niece, born almost 2 months early could have been killed, legally, even up to the day she was born, also sickens me. It angers me. President Obama says it is perfectly fine for an infant (that is what they are) who somehow manages to survive an attempted abortion, be left to die. He attempts to justify the indefensible in his mind because he wants the self-satisfaction of saying that he is sparing “Mommy’s” (term used loosely) feelings. It is important that SHE doesn’t “feel” bad.
What are we doing? Why is this OK?
Once life is devalued in any form, all life is devalued. We have allowed ourselves, at least I did, to believe that “When does life begin?” is an actual debatable question, and maybe even one that is above our “pay-grade.” We couch the issue, we don’t allow ourselves to believe an unborn baby is Life. Sometimes this is done out of compassion; we feel like we don’t have the right to put ourselves in someone else’s shoes. Sometimes it is done under the guise of personal freedom or a right to privacy. We use these weak arguments to somehow try and justify the horrible and inhumane actions, actions for which I believe humanity itself, in the future, will judge harshly. All our misplaced compassion, all our rationalizations, are meaningless because if we are honest with ourselves, we are using them to sanction the killing of a child.
An unborn baby isn’t just a mass of tissue, it isn’t just a clump of cells. In fact, at day one, it is Life. We have laws protecting fish EGGS as Life (and not just as “potential life”) but not our own unborn children? An unborn child, upon conception, is Life. It’s potential is to have a life, but it already is Life. There is a difference.
We must be intellectually honest about it, at the very least. I find it odd that the very same people who deride religion and embrace science conveniently forget what Francesco Redi proved in the 1600s, and which Pasteur went on to prove yet again, Biogenesis or Omne Vivum Ex Ovo; Life CANNOT spring from non-life, every living thing from an egg. Biogenesis – THAT science really is settled.
Can one grieve for something that isn’t alive? I know from experience that when you lose a baby through miscarriage, you don’t think, “Oh, it was just a clump of cells anyway.” You grieve and mourn, both physically and mentally. Can something not alive THINK? Because unborn babies move around in the womb; they think to move to give themselves more wiggle room. They respond to voices. They respond to movement, they respond to music and they do so very early on. Gracie, for some odd reason, liked the theme from Sex and The City, something I have yet to completely forgive her for.
Viability isn’t an issue for me either. Not viable does not equal not alive. A full-term delivered baby isn’t viable on its own either. It can breathe on its own, but that’s about it. Even then it needs some additional help. If you put a newborn down to sleep on his or her stomach and anything blocks their nose and mouth, they won’t be able to turn their head and will suffocate.
I do not expect to change anyone’s mind overnight. I am not trying to preach. I understand the pro-choice position. I believed many of the basic concepts myself for a long time. I am simply hoping for a little intellectual honesty.
Acknowledge that the unborn are alive and that abortion is the ending of that life. Of course, this won’t bring back the almost 50 million (yes, million) babies aborted in America since Roe v. Wade in 1973.
Just a little intellectual honesty, for now. I hope that one day, the rest will follow.
Originally/cross-posted at iowntheworld.com



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awesome diary, Lori. highly recommend
pilgrim (Diary) Saturday, December 12th at 3:39PM EST (link)The only lefty I have ever read with even a shred of intellectual honesty is Camille Paglia. Paglia does not deny or question that a life is being snuffed out. She makes, IMO a weak argument, that the mother-to-be had ownership of her body first before the child-to-be took up residency.
Yeah, Paglia is a least honest
Lori Ziganto (Diary) Saturday, December 12th at 11:56PM EST (link)I don’t agree with her always, obviously, but at least she is consistent in her beliefs/opinions and doesn’t suffer from the usual cognitive dissonance and intellectual dishonestly.
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Hermes (Diary) Sunday, December 13th at 3:23PM EST (link)Paglia is twisted in her conception of “ownership.” “Ownership” of one’s own body, as if the child within were a squatter, is absurd. In Paglia’s favor, however, she does acknowledge that the child in utero is a life, as you point out, Pilgrim. A rather better argument is that abortion is, essentially, justifiable homicide. Given our knowledge of how the human person develops in utero, this is really the only honest position left for the pro-aboriton crowd. It’s sick and twisted, but it has the virtue, at least, of being honest.
I agree. a sick and twisted argument. nt
pilgrim (Diary) Sunday, December 13th at 3:56PM EST (link)Darnit, how did that baby get in there?
Beaglescout (Diary) Monday, December 14th at 4:29PM EST (link)Of course most mothers realize that they had something to do with that baby getting into their womb. It’s not like the baby is just sneaking around and creeps into a random stranger’s womb to squat there. The embryo or baby (same thing in greek or english) is the result of the mother’s conscious actions (with some exceptions) and his/her care is the responsibility of the mother, who could have (with exceptions) taken actions to make sure she didn’t get pregnant… like not having sex in the first place. Yes, there are exceptions, but most abortions are performed for the convenience of an irresponsible mother or baby-daddy or both.
And with baby-daddy I bring up the real reason behind popular support of abortion, a culture of predatory males taking advantage of single women without any intention of ever marrying them or becoming part of a family.
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Excellent diary Lori and one subject that is close to my heart....
JadedByPolitics (Diary) Saturday, December 12th at 8:33PM EST (link)I cannot say enough about ensuring that abortion becomes NON-EXISTENT because it is indeed a life and the party of death the Democrats are at this very moment attempting to make me pay for someone to kill a small soul and I am more distressed about that portion of the this bill then any other.
I think of the almost 50 million Americans killed since 1973 and my hearts weeps with the thought of who and what they could have been. The stupid greenies could have probably with the help of the liberals killed the very person who would have found an answer to gasless cars.
WE have no idea the type of individuals that have been SLAUGHTERED in the name of progressives which once again shows that word is being misapplied because there is NOTHING progressive about MURDER!
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rbdwiggins (Diary) Saturday, December 12th at 9:34PM EST (link)that all parties to the debate instinctively accept personal responsibility and consequence of action. That’s nearly an impossible task since every effort has been made throughout American society to remove God from the public discourse.
“Well, the trouble with our liberal friends is not that they are ignorant, but that they know so much that isn’t so.” – Ronald Reagan
Great Diary Lori! Thanks!
nessa (Diary) Saturday, December 12th at 9:40PM EST (link)And thanks for sparing us the bladder shot.
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Hermes (Diary) Sunday, December 13th at 3:17PM EST (link)The late Emmanuel Levinas, a briliant philosopher and Talmudic scholar, built his entire system of philosophy around the idea that each human being has a reponsibility for the fate of the Other (the other human being). Ethics begins with this assumption. Given what you have so effectively demonstrated here, Lori, it logically follows that since the child in utero IS in fact a human person, each of us has a responsibility for his or her fate. To allow a human person, innocent of any wrongdoing (ie a child in utero), to be brutally executed is to utterly renounce ethics and humanism. For the pro-abortion crowd to somehow make the argument that abortion is moral (ethical) is not only wrong, but absurd. It is the twisting of the very notion of ethics. What this reveals about the minds of Senators Feinstein and Boxer is the deep level of sickness and depravity that a human being can sink to in her quest for power.
Highly recommended diary!
VERY Highly recommended!
From ME to You (Diary) Tuesday, December 15th at 5:38PM EST (link)BTW Gracie has an awesome mom
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