I received several emails from some friends this morning. It gave me a bit of a shock. The one that started it included this line…
”…and a special THANK YOU to those of you who have fought for the FREEDOMS that I and my family have today! You all ROCK!”
Until the moment I read that I hadn’t realized that I was one of the recipients of my Nation’s thanks today. Every reminder of Memorial Day I have seen on TV or read on the interwebz has reminded me of those who went before, those who suffered through years of hardship, of those who “gave their last full measure of devotion” and of the families and loved ones left to carry on. Of those who still suffer on a lonely post in brutal conditions, far away from their loved ones, and of those loved ones, living each and every day with a constant fear that something will go wrong.
It’s humbling and I must admit a little embarrassing. Thank you for including me but all I ever did was a job that I loved. I should be thanking all of America; you are the ones who gave me the opportunity to lead your sons and daughters. A lifetime of working with the finest Soldiers ever to walk the face of the earth. To see the transformation from bedraggled, ill-disciplined punk to proud, barrel-chested, steely-eyed Soldier is a privilege few get to witness.
To give my last swallow of water to a comrade in 120 degree desert heat, to have a comrade shoulder my load when I was hurting and may not have made it alone. To see the abject terror in a Soldier’s eyes as he steps up to the wind whipped, wide open door on a C 130, with nothing but the blackest night awaiting his entry. Then to meet that same young Paratrooper on the Drop Zone later, overflowing with adrenaline and pride at having faced his fear and survived. You can see the spark in his eyes even in the dark; it will blind you if you’re wearing night vision goggles.
When circumstances and the ever present need to “complete the mission” have forced me to ask my Soldiers to do the impossible, then to see them grit their teeth, square their shoulders and do it. Impossible isn’t in their vocabulary, failure isn’t an option.
When Michelle Obama experienced pride in her country for the first time a few months ago, deep down, beneath a layer of disgust and another of contempt was a kernel of pity. What a miserable excuse for a life she has led and I can say that. I can make that judgment. My life has been the polar opposite. America has given me a lifetime of pride and accomplishment, shoulder to shoulder with America’s finest, America’s sons and daughters.
I won’t claim to speak for others in my shoes, but for myself…
No thanks are necessary, please save your thanks for those better than me. I put my heart and soul into my service, but I came away with riches undreamt by Kings. Thank you for allowing me the Honor and the Privilege.

Steve Maley
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I want to thank all of those that served
Black River Wolf (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 1:10PM EST (link)As with some of the comments in my post about my grandpa, the military instills a selfless mindset that is not just in the “Greatest Generation, but to all generations of soldiers.
We owe a lot to all soldiers, grunts, sailors and airmen. They all protect our freedoms and liberty we take for granite far too often.
Thank you for our service, and thank you to all that serve or have served.
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two is a law firm, and three or more is a congress.”—-John Adams
Nessa, I know you would go back in a heartbeat, if called.
penguin2 (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 2:06PM EST (link)All of you who served and suffered for us, nessa, we are forever grateful. I did 3yrs. as a Navy Nurse, (not in wartime) and it could/would never compare with what you all have gone through on the front lines. But I was proud to serve my country and I too would go back in a heartbeat if they called.
Nessa, this is beautiful:
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LaborUnionReport (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 3:09PM EST (link)our Nation, defended our Freedom, and risked all for US.
Thank you!
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AWESOME diary Nessa........
JadedByPolitics (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 3:51PM EST (link)and that friend of yours is RIGHT ON, thank you and thanks to ALL that have served, are serving and have paid the ULTIMATE PRICE so that indeed WE ALL may enjoy the FREEDOMS that come with being a citizen of the United States of America! There has NEVER been a Country like her and there NEVER will be!
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Nessa, beautiful diary. Just beautiful. Thank you.
Danielle Davis (ocleverone) (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 3:58PM EST (link)Incredibly well written – incredibly moving.
To me, “consensus” seems to be the process of abandoning all beliefs, principles, values and policies. So it is something in which no one believes and to which no one objects … There are still people in my party who believe in “consensus” politics. I regard them as Quislings, as traitors … I mean it. — Margaret Thatcher
Spot on, kudos & thanks for this! nt
mriggio (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 4:24PM EST (link)mriggio
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CheerleaderParty, save the World! (Heroes, ed.)nessa, I've heard it said that you and those like you
redneck_hippie (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 5:09PM EST (link)who do what you do, truly believe that anyone else would do the same if they are able. That is greatness of heart in my book.
Nessa.........
Kenny Solomon (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 5:18PM EST (link)When ya comin’ back down here ? We need to lift a pint (or 20) to those who won’t be able to join us.
Anyway, that’s about the size of it with many of my friends…… They want or need the thanks……… They know.
So……
Thank you.
Kowalski.......
Kenny Solomon (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 5:19PM EST (link)Oy vey……
They DON’T want or need the thanks.
All twelve thumbs working overtime today.
Here is my tribute..
ladyimpactohio (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 5:35PM EST (link)http://conservative-outlooks.com/2010/05/28/memorial-day-or-not-2/
Thank you for your service to this country.
We the people tell government what to do, it does not tell us.–Ronald Reagan in his farewell speech
Nessa, you brought tears to my eyes.
muffin Monday, May 31st at 5:55PM EST (link)Thank you for your service to our country. That comes from my heart.
Any time I see a soldier, I will ask if I may shake his/her hand and then I thank them for their service. I had the honor a few weeks ago of buying a soldier a meal before he was returning to Iraq. You can’t imagine the 100-watt smile I received from this man. At the very least, he knows some of us really DO care.
Sometimes I think how little we do for our troops for what we get in return.
THANK YOU, Nessa.
Fortitudine vincimus – By endurance we conquer
Nessa
klondike Monday, May 31st at 7:27PM EST (link)I’ve avoided commenting until now because I never served in the military, and therefore it sometimes is difficult to communicate on the same level. But I have to comment on this last part of your post:
“Thank you for allowing me the Honor and the Privilege.”
This is what those of you who DO probably never recognize. It is we, those for whose freedom you fight, who feel privileged and honored by those of you who do what you do. We do not appreciate only those who serve in combat, although that’s pretty huge. We appreciate the MPs, the logistical folks – everyone who is part of the effort.
Every single American owes a huge debt of gratitude to all of those who have served, and so many of us know that.
Thank you, Nessa. And many thanks to your family who supported you while you protected us. That is no small task.
Nessa, dittos to your last three paragraphs
ColdWarrior (Diary) Monday, May 31st at 8:00PM EST (link)They’re so good, I’ll just copy them here for ease of reference:
My sentiments exactly. There were days when I hated the bureaucracy of “this man’s Army,” but even on those days I felt so very privileged to be in the service of the nation and would not trade a second of it for anything.
My flag is flying today in memory of those who gave the last full measure of devotion to this wonderful country. Now we must honor them by doing our utmost to get out the vote in the remaining primaries and the general election on Nov. 2. We must make sure our current warriors come home to a republic, not a thug-run democracy.
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Memorial Day for me
Deskpilot (Diary) Tuesday, June 1st at 8:53AM EST (link)was participating in 2 of three county events here in New Castle County Delware. Diane and I went to the Memorial Day Service at the Delaware Veterans Cemetery and then to the Memorial Day parade on Delaware Ave.
While the Bugler cracked a number if notes during TAPS, I still chills me to hear it played live.
The parade was made up of the typical cadre of various Veterans groups, Gold Star Families and two local High School bands, there was also a contingent of three very small groups of war protesters. While I vehimently disagree with their idiocy, I served 20 1/2 years for them to have the right to parade as they did.
The local Marine Corps Recruiting station provided the parades’ Color Guard. Also a moving sight. I saluted the flag of EACH organization that paraded the Colors. After it was over, the young Marines came to the bar we were watching the parade from. My bill, plus thier first round of Guiness came out of my wallet with out so much as a second consideration.
For I do not know if those men will again carry the Colors, or if the Colors will carry them, next Memorial Day.
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Thank you Nessa NT
remnant60 (Diary) Wednesday, June 2nd at 7:42PM EST (link)Nessa, you did speak for others.
Flagstaff (Diary) Thursday, June 3rd at 3:06AM EST (link)We didn’t have identical experiences, but many of us had the same experience. Thanks for putting it into words.
BTW, that Ft. Bragg paratrooper in the door of the C-130 would really be nervous if he thought about the front-end crew in the 130 being mostly trainees too. We ALL felt good when the mission was over and everybody landed in the DZ instead of downtown Fayetteville.
I don’t know about you, but I still have the occasional dream about going back into service.
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